Yeah, I just read through this list and felt worse then when I did before lmao, Your reply was amazing though, and was a REAL mood booster, and great laugh (and thats the best medicine I guess) this list was easily the most patronizing thing i've read in along time...is this person even a real pyschiatrist? who knows how the next day will be , I read some rosy comments on missing out on opportunity. Weâve Got Depression All Wrong. Because if nothing worked we'd be dead right? Finding beauty in the world. This is such a pile of new-age upbeat crap that I don't want to begin dissecting each point to show just how wrong it is. And this article further proves my position. Symptoms were there, but nobody could see that. One other thing, I did a past life regression, the most amazing experience, saw myself as a Union soldier in the Civil War, then as a farm hand dying of a heart attack about 30 yeas later out in a field clearing rocks on a warm spring day, I knew then that we are born, and live, and die, many times, some lives are good and easy, some are terribly hard. Call 1-800-273-8255 or call 911 in case of emergency. but, as that Last Day will inevitably come, I'd encourage you (dare you?) That is very true. Some, like me are disabled from a physical illness suffering from chronic physical pain and discomfort which leaves a person socially isolated and in poverty. Ana Nogales, what is your phd in? For one, suicidal people are probably not jsut thinking about the vague concepts of death. This reminds me way to much of counsellors, psychologists, even psychiatrists who will "prescribe" without truly seeing the patient (lots of bad mental health professionnals out there). Reasons To Live is here to provide you with a way out of suicide. This is why people take their lives; because articles like this practically encourage this by flaunting that life could be good but these people don't have that and want to die more. The risk of suicide increases dramatically when kids and teens have access to firearms at home, and nearly 60 percent of all suicides in the United States are committed with a gun.Â Â. I totally love architecture and stuff although Iâm not an expert. Comedy works for me as well, as does forcefully disconnecting myself from social media and horrible news sites, full of propaganda and sensationalism and fear. 13 Reasons Why is a Netflix series based on a book by Jay Asher. We are here to help you live a fulfilling life. I'm looking for reasons for my new blog elizareasonstolive I make too much money to get assistance, not enough to keep paying out of pocket, and my insurance, which is a policy I got before the horrible Obama-care crap went through, does not cover mental health. Why? I have to say that alcohol has saved my life a thousand times, as Eric Clapton said, the only reason I didn't kill myself was because I knew if I was dead I could never have another drink, the docs and shrinks drone on and on about how alcohol ruins lives, but they never think about how alcohol and other drugs save lives, by easing the pain. As an aside to this, you people really need to get a grip on how dangerous those suicide hotlines are for people on the edge. I am sorry to hear of the pains, physical and emotional, you've endured, Ray, and can certainly understand your use of meds and other substances to reduce such pains. Life is an invitation to learn. The story is fictionalâbut teen suicide is, regrettably, a reality faced by many. To even think some of the garbage in your list shows depressed people just how little you overpriced "professionals" actually care at all. The live-action Mulan isn't a musical, first and foremost. Nobody really knows a reason why. What may be "laughable" to you is in no way "laughable" to me. Watching someone talk about something theyâre passionate about. Nothing lasts forever. And the adults themselves aren't immune: Like teens, many adults contemplate suicide when feeling hopeless.Â, Since Hannah could not find her own reasons, I'll leave you with myÂ "13 Reasons Why...to Live. If I could not work and have money, I would. ( maybe 90 %sacrifice for the other 10% ).Its a genetic lottery where few will find success, chances are 7 /10 - 9/10 a baby will go on to lead an average or below average life. Those who have it should enjoy it. I know this, I've been in this situation time and time again, not once did a hospital or a counselor actually help, most of the time it only got worse. It takes courage to be kind to yourself even when everything in your body is telling you to hate. When you are stressed, take the time to put on a smile. 13 Reasons Why is a Netflix series based on a book by Jay Asher. Why are so many people drawn to conspiracy theories in times of crisis? In the meantime, I haven't lost all hope for one more peaceful moment or improving my life in some way. Hospitals don't help when it comes to mental illnesses because they just medicate. My psychiatrist did not take me seriously. to see if you can extract some of Life's better juices - and they *are* there - in what months and years may lie ahead. I get you are a trained professional, but telling someone who is suicidal to those things has little affect on them. Can I use any of yours (made into my own)? For example, I'm looking to buy a house with about four others. That is very true. Good job proving the point of the comment you were just arguing against. I do not understand your comment. For many, drugs and alcohol are the last line of defense against suicide. Iâm sick of this life, sick of the nonstop problems, and I canât even get the help I need. The suffering is endless. In most cases, however, the fantasy of committing suicide ends there, often with an understanding that life is a gift that should not be taken for granted. Our lives are not only our own. I have physical problems, though, and my policy is much better than anything else I can get now, and I do not want to give that up. If you or someone you know is at risk of suicide, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255). Chris, I am all in favor of "death with dignity," and while we had no choice getting shat into this world, I concur we should have a choice on how we leave it. We are the designers of our life. Fresh baked cookies. Yes, for some people life is a gift, for some life is a curse. It centers around a girl in high school who kills herself after feeling discouraged and hurt by traumatic circumstances. Yes, I can sometimes see beauty in the world, yes, I know my existence includes other people. But I think rather than being vague for a larger audience, being more specific in your audience and details would allow us to appreciate the quality more than quantity of viewership. That quote makes no sense because there is no sense living if my life is fucked up so I should just die and if there isn't a good reason to live then I'll just be down in the ground. Alcohol has saved my life a thousand times, takes the edge off, gets me through til tomorrow, so far. So I'm interested to hear about what works for others. TOO MUCH THINKING! So sad all they needed was ............? Stress can permeate our entire being, and can really show up in our faces. I am feeling suicidal and reading this article made it 100% worse. I'm not sure if it would be better or worse that you may not take clients and instead blog about things you seem to have no real understanding of. Your suggestion of getting help is great â for people that have a lot of money or insurance that covers it. Get the help you need from a therapist near you–a FREE service from Psychology Today. Highly detailed, personal, specific things that occurred in their life. If there is someone seriously contemplating an exit short blogs about living are not the place to look - a professional seriously needs to be called. I take about seven meds, and have a lot of sleep issues, but travel is usually doable, I promise. Life's challenges don't exist only to upset usâthey exist so that we understand ourselves better and get to know who we really are.Â, To live is to discover something about ourselves of which we were not aware.Â. Why? Our primal brain makes the urge to live stronger than any other counter emotion. Just as the bad waves can sometimes show no mercy, the good ones come along and refresh us. Really hit home on exploration or something. I live alone. Self care and ideas to help you live a healthier, happier life. "Yeah, let me remind you how nobody likes you". ... 39 Reasons Living In Maine Ruins You For Life. Suicide is a proper and necessary exit from life and its endless horrors/inconsistencies. If I could be financially independent without savings or a job, I would. In the end though, it is acceptance that has helped me the most. We understand that there are many reasons to feel that life has no meaning—among them, not being able to compete in a society that insists on constant productivity, not meeting personal expectations, or not meeting the expectations of parents to be successful. I'm guessing here, but I feel like you haven't seen the show or read the books, and if you have you paid no attention to what the story was truly about. note: this is a reply to the original article, not any particular reply, sorry. We are the designers of our life. The reasons are so bad. Even within the paralyzing hell of endless anxiety and depression, there is hope, if only the hope is getting out of the prison of the head and focusing on helping another person, or volunteering to help animals. Each new day is a new experience. I'm in the same boat as you. This is a field I have been disappointed in time and time again. I have an opinion based on fact and personal experience. And remember all the people in relationships who hate each other's guts and are miserable isn't unhelpful. In the 300,000+ year history of homo sapiens, about 110 billion of us have walked this earth, 7 billion currently are. I feel like no matter how much training a medical professional may have, it does help those truly thinking of committing suicide because all the medicine in the world will not treat someone who truly believes that the only answer is to end it all. Hospitals don't help when it comes to mental illnesses because they just medicate. Why Fans of Horror Movies May Be More Resilient. Suppose every day is just yet another opportunity to experience negativity or pain? Life is not static; it's in constant movement, much like the waves of the ocean. If I could not drink water and not experience dehydration, if I could not sleep and not feel tired, if I could not clean my house and have a clean house.... Thatâs not the way in which the world works. None of us get out here alive, but if weâve known or *could* know a modicum of happiness or peace, I hope weâll go the full course. Or my bones. Trust me, I came across this whilst suicidal and I know for a damn fact this is useless. You are catering to the people who are bummed and not suicidal, while you give the depressed more reasons to be suicidal...really? Yes, I can sometimes see beauty in the world, yes, I know my existence includes other people. The story is fictional—but teen suicide is, regrettably, a reality faced by many. 13 Reasons Why is an American teen drama web television series originally developed for Netflix as limited series by Brian Yorkey, based on the 2007 novel Thirteen Reasons Why by Jay Asher.. During the course of the series, 49 episodes of 13 Reasons Why were released over four seasons, between March 31, 2017, and June 5, 2020. And an invitation to suicide, it would seem. Forget Toronto and Vancouver; these days, Edmonton is where itâs at. So much has been made of the 13 Reasons Why show it is refreshing to read her take on the issue and turning this into a more positive approach. They are thinking of SPECIFIC things and triggers. Love the negativity, love it like itâs a sweet kitten or a bowl of soup or a blanket or a gift from someone you loved. Suicide is a prescription that is to cure pain, your cousins had real pain and no one to prescribe a real living solution to it. The philosophy of Pharrell Williams? Finding some pharmaceutical MDMA to take in a therapeutic setting would be nice, but I don't live in California. You are catering to the people who are bummed and not suicidal, while you give the depressed more reasons to be suicidal...really? You'd be amazed how quickly your "friends" will run for the hills if you go to them for genuine help with a real problem. If those that care about them can't be happy for the end of their suffering, I'd argue that they didn't really feel empathy about it in the first place and their desire for that person to stay alive is purely selfish. I don't know. Suicide is the third-leading cause of death for 15- to 24-year-olds, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). Ruby Hill Homes in Pleasanton CA. If you or someone you know is at risk of suicide, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255).Â. She names 12 people she blames for her pain—be it for bullying, driving under the influence, rape, or other traumas. ( maybe 90 %sacrifice for the other 10% ).Its a genetic lottery where few will find success, chances are 7 /10 - 9/10 a baby will go on to lead an average or below average life. Some, like me are disabled from a physical illness suffering from chronic physical pain and discomfort which leaves a person socially isolated and in poverty. We may also be experiencing a phase of fatalism, a sense of not belonging or of being invisible. You can also ask your readers to do it... For heavens sake don't. Maybe much of the first 50 years sucked, but the optimist in me would like to think there may be at least an ounce of good in the next 1, 5, 10, 20, more? Then again, I reasoned, why not point the double barrell to my heart and explode the source of all my pain, my feelings (Elliott Smith). I'm waiting around until my parents die before going through with it, approximately another 20 years. Your suggestion of getting help is great — for people that have a lot of money or insurance that covers it. Interestingly it seems you have unwittingly (in the most ignorant sense) provided a key reason why so many never seek therapy or for many that do, why they end up with a "14th reason". Only a mentally ill person could adapt, could accommodate, could so proudly function (Donald Trump) in such a pathological society. First, this is an article that explains general reasons why to live. And " If death gives meaning to life, then consider it, but in order to learn to live better." In most cases, however, the fantasy of committing suicide ends there, often with an understanding that life is a gift that should not be taken for granted. Our lives, even if we live to 100, are the slightest sliver of time on this planet. You can't understand the reason for their suicides because you are effectively a complete fucking moron . We are shited into this world, no one asks for it, then we get trodden down, first to kill are our parents, if we are lucky then we have normal parents, but then starts this lovely society, this kills us, work, slavery for money, being judged, classivied, being nothing but a number, a worker, no freedom, money! If I could have no more romantic rejections and no more wish to find an intimate partner, I would. Wait until someone kills themself after reading one of these asinine posts of yours and they find your article on the screen of their pc. and say you are suicidal the will send an ambulance, they are NOT there to talk to you about it or talk you out of it or make you feel better YOU WILL end up in a hospital because they will track your call even from a computer so just know that the hotline is a deceptive name for it. Some gift! Comedy works for me as well, as does forcefully disconnecting myself from social media and horrible news sites, full of propaganda and sensationalism and fear. Not enough doing and not enough, "outer is better," and unleashing myself from the prison of myself by helping others, by focusing outwards. Which I suppose is possible in a list format (anything can be done well). I agree out of everyone I know, No one seems to know what I feel and why I cry every day. This woman who wrote this should know depression is a very real illness that actually needs treatment and can be helped and not this bullcrap! It’s Trying to Save Us. TV Shows. 6. This list is weak and will have very little benefit for those who are on the edge of suicide. I am feeling suicidal and reading this article made it 100% worse. If I could have no more romantic rejections and no more wish to find an intimate partner, I would. The Stages of Coping With the COVID-19 Pandemic, '13 Reasons Why': The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly, 13 Reasons Why “13 Reasons Why” May Send a Dangerous Message, 13 Things Parents Should Know About 13 Reasons Why, Six Reasons Why Individuals Choose Suicide, When I'm With You: Addressing Youth Suicide. I am RN including Psychiatric Nursing. Maybe two ounces, maybe a whole lot more. The smell of artificial watermelon. ),the lifes of others are a game for you, you play with them and that give a fealing of power, does it not?! Pleasanton Farmersâ Market So, your 13 reasons to live are because, well, life is worth living? We understand that there are many reasons to feel that life has no meaningâamongÂ them, not being able to compete in a society that insists on constant productivity, not meeting personal expectations, or not meeting the expectations of parentsÂ to be successful. No its worthless, see people die, in Syria, Afrika, in wars?! The choice is accepting you wanting to kill yourself is an appropriate response to living in a pathological culture or not. And " If death gives meaning to life, then consider it, but in order to learn to live better." Besides, anyone can write something vague and make it sound beautiful. None of them really had a reason to take their own life, but they did. Shooting stars. I do not understand why thereâs nonstop BS to live with. No, every suicidal person is not mentally ill. I've accepted I will not ever find a life partner, and being okay with this is a tremendous relief. Not everyone has others who truly care about them, or even necessarily give a tiny little damn. So I'm interested to hear about what works for others. Fuck you. Itâs Trying to Save Us. The only winning move is not to play. I've seen more impressive suggestions from uneducated people with a practical knowledge of people. The items on this list do not address that. When hope even marginally exceeds desperation, life prevails. Many men have prayed for death Because this is how things work, at least for now. I often stay indoors, but I do enjoy going outside, although rarely would I plan to and purposely by myself head out the door. To even think some of the garbage in your list shows depressed people just how little you overpriced "professionals" actually care at all. Now that I also have rheumatoid arthritis it hurts, physically, all the time, the only thing that takes the pain away is narcotics and sleep, waking up hurts, so why not just go to sleep keep on sleeping? Ayuh. However the value systems across the world condemn the concept of suicide because it is an escape from this gruelling game , which in the end , has no meaning - other than furthering the race. So you have a choice. Sometimes, depression does not let us see the beauty of life. But it doesn't have to be that way, with acceptance. Considered one of the so-called four pillars of the European Union, this freedom allows all EU citizens to live, work and travel in other member states. Then what's the point of suffering through yet another day of the same? And that has inspired Alan Zweig's documentary feature 15 Reasons To Live, which takes up that list as a call to adventure. We live because one day in early childhood we realise that we are alive and already have lots of reasons to go on living. Suicide, therefore indicates the human is evolved , as its cortical brain can overpower the primal brain. Medicine is not and never is actually the answer, the answer is through people close to the person, only family and friends can truly help. The first snowfall of the season. The content of this field is kept private and will not be shown publicly. We can learn something from every moment, good or bad. I get you are a trained professional, but telling someone who is suicidal to those things has little affect on them. Check out 10 Reasons To Live by 10 Reasons To Live on Amazon Music. Now that I also have rheumatoid arthritis it hurts, physically, all the time, the only thing that takes the pain away is narcotics and sleep, waking up hurts, so why not just go to sleep keep on sleeping? It doesnât completely sound like you are reaching your intended audience. There are millions who understand your pain. It strokes you ego does it not?! And this article further proves my position. For vague, perhaps âlive for that sliver of sunlight through a pane of glass, or that rainbow in a fountainâ. Why Fans of Horror Movies May Be More Resilient. And statements like "We are the designers of our life" could not be uttered by someone who has ever existed, like millions of people all over the world do, with no meaning or control over their lives, trapped in endless cycles of physical, emotional and financial crisis. What Do You Evoke in Others (and They in You)? For me cats and a puppy really helped. It is not may place to command, "Don't give up hope!" Great! A certain strain of weed works well for me though. SO scum like you can tell me that life is beautiful, and worth something?! I stopped drinking because it was a bit too much of a good thing. First, think about someone who reads this article. If there is someone seriously contemplating an exit short blogs about living are not the place to look - a professional seriously needs to be called. Stack that on having felt invisible to everybody I've ever known beginning with my parents, so, what for? This is in every damn article, not going to lie. I've seen more impressive suggestions from uneducated people with a practical knowledge of people. I have a Gay male friend who, along with his partner, though they have all the "trappings" of our culture: house, they're married, both have great careers and make good money etc. This charming suburbâs real estate market success has always been attributed to a number of good reasons. Who in blazes are you to tell people their life is not their own? The risk of suicide increases dramatically when kids and teens have access to firearms at home, and nearly 60 percent of all suicides in the United States are committed with a gun. To live is to look at ourselves in the mirror and discover a message of love in our own eyes. Many people are stuck in situations where the items on this list are not applicable, or won't be applicable for such a long time, the person is too tired to wait it out. Each wave that comes brings with it new experiences, and each one is different. If everyone is going to die , how does it matter if one ends life a little earlier. Life is not static; it's in constant movement, much like the waves of the ocean. Movies. Which may also sound vague, as we all have things that are really specific to us. They may have the world's highest taxes, but it's totally worth it. The show definitely showed us there are plenty of reasons as to why someone would commit suicide but your list proves that there are also plenty of reasons to live. Find another career. While friends don't miraculously help you feel better about your situation, and neither may your family, the source of support - in merely knowing you're not alone is helpful for many. Suppose every day is just yet another opportunity to experience negativity or pain? So sad all they needed was ............? The reasons are so bad. Number 4, for example. Alcohol has saved my life a thousand times, takes the edge off, gets me through til tomorrow, so far. But they do say that when depressed, activities we used to enjoy, we donât enjoy that much anymore. There are some references to the original Disney songs in the score, but that's about it. The important thing is to accept that help. Wait until someone kills themself after reading one of these asinine posts of yours and they find your article on the screen of their pc. Esoteric, feel-good bullplop like this is useless and offers no help whatsoever to anyone who is seriously considering taking the "express exit". 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